One of the most frustrating and painful things to do is to watch someone we love suffer, and to not be able to do anything about it. We all want our loved ones to be happy, we want to offer them help, solutions, a hand when we see them in pain. But some times, with some people, no matter what we do they seem to prefer to continue in their pain, they choose to suffer. Why? There are many reasons why people choose to suffer, but they usually boil down to a couple of main belief